Throughout our lives, a sense of personal dignity is essential to our well being. We each need to feel valued and respected.
Near the end-of-life, the challenges of serious illness can erode a person’s dignity – which can increase pain and despair for both the patient and family. In an effort to address a patient’s physical needs, for instance, caregivers may treat the person more like a set of symptoms than a human being. They may unthinkingly deprive the person of basic privacy. And they may overlook the patient’s social, emotional and spiritual needs.
But this doesn’t have to be the case. Both family and professional care providers can take important steps to help maintain the person’s dignity. Moreover, hospice care can play a leading role in ensuring dignity and respect for the patient and family.
Dignity is a lifelong, universal need that’s vital to a person’s welfare. It means feeling a sense of worth or respect.
Near the end-of-life, most people have less control over their life due to illness. Therefore, caregivers must act in ways that help preserve the person’s sense of dignity. Hospice maintains patients’ dignity by focusing on their comfort and quality of life.
The concept of dignity varies from person to person and across different cultures. Key aspects of dignity in end-of-life care are:
“Helping our patients maintain dignity in hospice care means treating them the way we’d like to be treated: with patience, compassion, caring and respect.” — Mary Ann Boccolini, President/CEO, Samaritan Healthcare & Hospice
Families and other caregivers can help people maintain their dignity at the end-of-life by focusing on the person’s full range of needs: physical, emotional, social, and spiritual.
Physical needs: Engage hospice care to help control the patient’s pain and any other symptoms, such as nausea or shortness of breath. Make sure the person is in the right environment to receive dignified care, such as their home with support from a hospice provider. Avoid invasive or unnecessary procedures that will not improve the person’s quality of life.
Emotional needs: Communicate with the patient. Listen to them, and sympathize with their feelings and concerns. Involve the patient in decisions as much as possible. Encourage the patient and their partner to share their feelings with each other.
Spiritual needs: Whether religious or not, many people have spiritual needs at the end-of-life. These needs can include wanting to maintain their identity, and wanting to know about their condition. To help the person, spend time focusing on them, and work to understand their perspective. Eliciting the person’s life story can help them maintain their identity and dignity, and further reveal their needs and preferences. Help them and their care team create a holistic care plan that considers the person’s dignity. Offer visits by an appropriate clergyperson if the patient wants such support.
Social needs: “Social” assistance can promote dignity, such as helping the person manage their finances; enabling activities the person enjoys, like reading or playing cards; helping the person spend time with their family; and enabling the person to choose their place of death.
Family needs: Professional caregivers should also consider the needs of the patient’s family. Hospice care, in particular, focuses on the dignity of the family – both during their loved one’s illness and after death — offering a wide range of social and emotional supports.
Age: The concept of dignity differs with a person’s age, especially for children. When a child is terminally ill, dignity involves maintaining as much normalcy as possible. Enable the child to play, do their usual activities, and continue their regular relationships. Acknowledge they are still a child, and place less emphasis on their approaching death. As with adults, ensure they receive hospice care to address pain or other symptoms and needs.
Religion and culture: A person’s concept of dignity is influenced by their culture and values. For example, a Muslim patient may wish to die facing Mecca, the religion’s holiest city. A Jewish person may want to be assured that, after death, someone will stay with their body before burial – a religious practice that honors the dead.
Whether your loved one is living at home, in a hospice center, or in a hospital or other care facility, here are some ways to help ensure their dignity. These tips can apply to both professional and family caregivers.
Hospice care can increase a person’s dignity at the end-of-life, because hospice addresses each person’s full range of needs and preferences — physical, emotional, social, and spiritual.
“Time, sympathy and understanding must be lavishly dispensed… for the secret of the care of the patient is in caring for the patient.” Francis W. Peabody, physician and Harvard Medical School instructor, in a famous 1926 speech
To learn more about dignity at the end-of-life, as well as Samaritan’s hospice care and how it helps people maintain dignity at the end-of-life, call (800) 229-8183.